Time turned backward one hour this week. Things around us appear lifeless. Bark hangs bare against grey skies while turning leaves fall on withering grass. Today the clouds have made the sun obsolete. Rain drops dampen not only the air but also my spirit. Write. Study. Clean. Do laundry. The warmth and comfort of my home calls out to me, stay home. And of course, I’m inclined to obey.
For convenience sake, I put off my civic duty and privilege to vote until Election Day. Voting early requires me to go out of my way. Since I work from home, I have the flexibility and luxury to vote when it’s suits me best. Time is precious and money doesn’t grow on trees, right?
I realize now that convenience isn’t always convenient or perception isn’t necessarily reality. Have you ever felt that way? Last week, I convinced myself it was better to keep quiet than speak up on a matter. After all, silence is golden. I told myself, it’s better to stay out of it. It’s not my problem. This attitude was safer but not truthful. I wanted to remain in my comfort zone. Uninvolved. But God’s word calls us to speak truth into the lives of others (Eph. 4:15).
As a child, I was taught the golden rule: do unto others as you would have them do unto to you (Matt. 7:11). Those well-known words of Jesus whispered in my ear. Then a minute later, I thought rules are also meant to be broken on occasion. No matter how hard I tried ignoring the situation, the words of Jesus grew louder. Motivated by love, I was gently prodded to speak to my friend.
How do we know when love is the motivating factor behind our decisions? When we put the other person’s welfare above our own, we are acting from a humble and pure heart. An element of risk is involved when we subject ourselves to the possibility of rejection. I was haunted by the thought of my friend taking offense and attacking me.
Jesus chose to speak the truth in love to the woman at the well in John 4. He gently and privately exposed her sin. And He did so, without condemning her. By the time she left the well, she knew the way, the truth and the life. Jesus spoke the heart and counsel of God into a life, and so can we. When we know love, we can speak truth boldly, confidently, and gently into the lives of others without fear.
Multiple times, we read examples in scripture where Jesus wasn’t concerned with people’s righteous appearances but rather the heart behind their actions. Love isn’t always simple or easy; it often costs us. Jesus paid the ultimate price for love’s sake: he gave his life so everyone could experience abundant life. Love is golden.